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Welcome back, Shit Givers.
If you’re new here (and there are thousands of you since our last proper essay), welcome for the first time! Usually what happens is Willow writes a Monday newsletter and then I write a Friday essay that’s too long, but the last few weeks we’ve featured our 2023 Gift Guide and the Charitable Giving Guide instead.
I’m back today to share my 2023 wrap-up. It’s a pretty stream-of-consciousness endeavor, but I think it sums up where I was right in my 2023 preview, where I was very wrong, how the world changed — or didn’t — and most importantly, how we responded.
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2023 (UN)WRAPPED
When you’re a parent, “polycrisis” is the job.
*Ok, so I will pause very early here to caveat as always that my kids are wildly privileged to be, well, healthy — they have clean air, clean water, real food, health insurance, shelter, a good public school education, and do not live in a war zone. So this is all a relative experience sort of thing.
Anyways, yes, polycrisis should be your baseline expectation as a new parent. In fact, setting expectations is really the key to parenting. For behavior, bedtime, meal time, nap time, exhaustion levels, sex life, and more.
For your kids, who for a period of time do not know they have hands, obviously, but mostly, for yourself.
At one point, my wife and I had 3 kids under 3. It was glorious, exhausting, stressful, beautiful unbridled chaos. Now we have 3 kids under 11, which is just…different chaos.
If — considering the circumstances, and that each additional child grows your externalities exponentially — you expect anything other than chaos, you will be hugely disappointed. Every single day. Not to say being a parent is bad or sad or anything — though it can be any of those at any time — it’s usually everything I could have ever wanted (again, YMMV).
But my life and work often run in parallel: I am the father of three kids and also my day job is writing about the unpaid costs of systemic externalities and what the hell we can do to reduce those.
I help countries, companies, cities, families, and people ask “What are we exposed to? How can I reduce that exposure? How can I be prepared for the inevitable? What can I do to make this better, for everyone now, and in the future?”
These are also great questions to ask when your children are in diapers, potty-training, have a cough, are throwing up, have a fever, are going to school for the first time, riding a bike, allergic to some food or nut, losing their first teeth, disinvited to a birthday party, refusing to brush their remaining and/or new teeth, furious that you cut their apple in one way and not the other, etc.
But as a parent, it’s also important to understand that your risk changes over time. Risks when they’re 3 are very different from when they’re 11. But the rituals and routines you implement when they’re young can either pay off later, or come back to bite you in the ass. Or both.
2023 was no different.
Seeds of change, planted long ago, came to fruition, while other unexpected, radical change began to quickly and aggressively rewrite our understanding of geopolitics, biology, creativity, and the workplace.
Some quick hits: